did any of you have trouble with your significant wanting you to not have the surgery

my doctor just told me yesterday that I need to lose the weight or die. My girlfriend says it is not another diet it is a lifestyle change and I can lose it without the surgery. I know that for 30 of my 37 years I have been watching my weight with no long term success, but she is worried about the risks involved with the surgery. I'm worried about the risks involved if I don't have it.

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