My husband won't help...

He has already said he won't wipe my behind, and sort of makes jokes and says he's just kidding. I know he won't help with other chores. He does not do anything now. When I was pregnant he got a job out of town and only came home on the weekends. I love him very much, and I would do it for him. Anyway the point is I have a 2 year old and I wonder how others have coped. I am about 350lbs now and doing open RNY the 18th of July. I don't want to have to depend on my other family. Does anyone have suggestions? Is there a way to get him to understand? Any advise or suggestions would be great. Thanx.

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