How do I not tell family members about my surgery?

I'm getting RYN surgery in April. I'm not too thrilled about telling anyone on my husbands side of the family. They are very judgemental people. The only time I see them the most is on the hoildays, when everyone eats so much they cannot move any more. They may notice my limited eating around that time. How can I handle this?

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