Has anyone had marital problems after the surgery?

My husband and I have been married for 35 years and have 6 grown children. I am 53,my husband had an affair which lasted for 4years. He has told me it was because of my weight. We have remained together, but I am worried what his reaction will be when I start losing weight, I lost almost a hundred # a few years ago but I put most of it back on, I felt great when I had lost the wt, he was busy with (other things) at that time so I'm not sure he noticed. Most of the posting I have read, everyone has a husband who is very supportive. I am schuduled for surgery on 3-27-02

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