How can I convince a friend I cannot eat like I use t oafter surgery?

I am some time this year going to go through WLS. I have a friend of 20 years and every time we do something we end up at an all you can eat place. I warned her that I won't be able to do this for long and she says," Your not fat, you don't need this surgery, beside there are too mant things that go wrong." I've been on every kind of diet and medications and nothing seems to work because I end up binging and it's all over. The part about not being fat!!! Well I'm 5'5, 253lbs with a bmi of 42! I'm tried of hearing that from her,obvisouly her kids see it and they make fun of me. Which did stop real quick. Can someone help me and say something to ease my anger.

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