Help! very depressed. got denied and have to wait one year

Is there anyone out there going through the same situation as me ? I was denied wls because they (health net) want to me to do a doctor supervised diet.A year is a long time.I feel extremely depressed.I feel like a total fool at my job because my friend told some people now everybody looks at me funny wondering why I haven't proceeded with the wls.I had my hopes up sooo high and now I got to do this diet for a year !!! I need to talk to someone badly for the next 9 months. I feel so alone. My family totally support me and even thought they say they understand me, its not the same hearing it from someone who is going through the same thing. I have noticed something about the people who have had the surgery, they will answer other posts and offer advise to help but as far as one on one they aren't dedicated to supporting a pre-op. They lose interest because they are on the other side now and in time they no longer really care about the fighting to get the wls.I am sure there are alot of people out there who still care but I got a long wait and I know I must sound very whinny, huh? Anyone else out there whinning like me? I want your company and together we can get through this. Thanks !!!

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