Is anyone else having trouble in their marriage posy op

My husband and I have been married for 5 1/2 years. We have faced lots of struggles and conquered everyone as a team. Now that I am 4 months post op we seem to be growing apart. I love my husband but it seems I don't like him right now. I am becoming more active and he just sits there. Its driving me crazy. He is also very overweight but is doing nothing to start to resolve it and refuses to even consider WLS. I just don't know what to do. I know you are not supposed to change your mate but if he doesn't I am worried we won't make it. Please help.

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