Dreaded batwings......

Hello all, I am scheduled for RNY on April 5th. I am having a repeating thought that I wanted to run by here to see if anyone has had a similar experience. Though my weight is evenly distributed at 5'4 and 257 lbs, my concern is my arms. I used to have strong muscular arms and now I feel that my arms are extremely large and out of porportion. I asked my friend and husband and they say it is in porportion, therefore it is more mental. My fear is that they become so saggy that I can't wear short-sleeve shirts. I have accepted the legs and the abdomen if they come this way but I do not want it to happen to my arms as they are the most visible. So, with that said, any pointers, thoughts, suggestions, ideas etc to help with this?

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