Another unsupportive husband...*sigh*

My situation is a little bit different: my husband belives that his mother's WLS in 1977 contributed to her death some 30 years later. I am getting nothing but heavy sighs, eyerolls and uncomfortable squirming in their seats from the men in my family when I talk about my excitement in having this surgery. I am a genuinely happy, positive person and this is just sucking the life out of me. Background: I had a RNY BEFORE I even knew my husband and now I need a revision. I was a size 4 when he met me. Now I am a 24. I am so ashamed and upset with myself that I can barely get out of bed to take care of my toddler son. At first, my husband would go with me to the appointments, but then it became such an inconvenience for him that I would always end up leaving every Dr's office fighting back tears and a nervous wreck because I took too long, or I talked too much about it. He even came in the office one time infront of everyone and said: "Ok, thats enough, let's go." because they were fawning over my miracle baby. My life has become unbearable. The minute I mentioned the DS to my husband and brother in law they pounced on me about their mother. I don't even have my own checking account. He controls all the money. What do I do when it comes time to pay? Please keep me in your prayers. I need all the help I can get. Trish

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