can you help me with this?????????

Friday my hubby and i were having some fun in the sack and i could not or would not get into it i just did not want to and this is very very very unlike me if i could i would have it everyday but now i just don't want him to touch me and i feel very hurt and angry towards him before the sugary he was distant not too affectionate and we really did not do it too often and only at his convenience but when we did do it was "GOOD" i always just took it because i was soo fat that i knew he loved me but i just gave it to him that because i had gotten so heavy that he wasn't really attracted to me so i just dealt with it not a happy camper and i did let him know but now that i have lost 104 pound in 6 months and am feeling great and he says i look better he still ignores me he acts like he can't stand me sometimes and it has even gotten to the point where i am actually thinking of asking him to leave but i am scared 13 years we build a life together and i do love him and appreciate him that he is a hard working man but i am sad and lonely and hurt i did the surgery for my health for me and for him my health is much better I feel wonderful now but I am hurt that the only person that I wanted to enjoy my new body with is not wanting to...............i know sex is not everything but it is important but he could try to be nice to me and a bit more affectionate..... (to know that this man that I have loved and have been completely true to for 13 years is still not giving me what I need as love and affectionate after all this makes me think gosh it was not the weight I guess that bothered him so much it is just me) help me...has anyone experienced the similar??????? what did you do...????????????? :(

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