Need ideas and help

So, I had RNY in March of 2010. I feel like I have no self control and the people in my house aren't helping any. Making cakes, cookies, doughnuts, ice cream, you name it. I eat these and don't feel sick and I feel like I'm gaining weight back and I need help! How do I stay away from these? THANKS

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