How can I lie to my family?

MY DH WANTS ME TO LIE TO ALL OF OUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ABOUT THE TYPE OF SURGERY I AM HAVING. I DO NOT WANT TO LIE TO THEM. I HAVE BEEN TELLING THEM ABOUT WLS FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW, SO WHY WOULD I LIE? HE SAID HE IS EMBARRESSED TO HAVE TO SAY HIS WIFE IS HAVING WEIGHT LOSS SURGERY. WHAT SHOULD I DO HERE...I TRIED TO TELL MY BEST FRIEND THAT I WAS HAVING GALL BLADDER SURGERY AND I FELT LIKE A REAL CREEP LIEING TO HER. I ALSO TOLD MY MOTHER (MY MOTHER LIVES 18OO MILES AWAY AND I AM CLOSE TO MY MOTHER INLAW) IN LAW THAT I WAS HAVING THE SURGERY AND MY HUSBAND FREAKED OUT ON ME BECAUSE HE DIDNT EVEN WANT HER TO KNOW...IS HE JUST TRYING TO HUMILIATE ME ONE MORE TIME...I WANT TO SCREAM!!! THEN HE TOLD HIS FRIEND I WAS HAVING "FEMALE SURGERY" (WHAT EVER THAT MEANS)...I JUST WANT TO SMACK HIM...SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE OR ATLEAST THE NUMBER TO A GOOD DIVORCE LAWYER... ;) SORRY TO POST ANNONYMOUS...BUT UNLIKE HIM, I DO NOT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS BY HAVING HIM READ THIS IN OUR EMAIL.

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