How do others deal with the "guilt"?

I am currently saving money for my RNY for my insurance doesn't cover WLS. I am having a difficult time with my emotions. I have a tremendous amount of "guilt", if you will, over letting myself get to the weight I am at now. I am 5 foot 8 and 464 pounds. I don't want to beat myself up. It isn't productive at all. Have others felt this way? Please help.

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