whats going on? advice?

ok, since i had wls in april, my fiance has lost some weight too. we will have been together for four years next month. we are only 19 years old, and it seems like we have the 'private' life of a 40 year old couple. so to speak. we are not the average couple. his sex drive is non exsistant. i feel like he has lost his sex drive since he lost weight, but that doesnt make sense. i also feel like i am no longer attractive to him since i have lost weight. he always said he likes 'bigger' girls. but he said that he desires me either way, thin, or heavy. so dont know what is going on. any advice? steph

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