Marriage

Who else of you, settled in marriage as an overweight person, and found that after you lose and get some self esteem back, that you want the other areas to be as healthy. My marriage was the conduit to my WLS. I didn't know that until after I married. I married an overweight man, and I think being middle aged, and fearing being alone, we are both guilty of taking the first thing that came along. He is a good person, and has seen me thru this. But he is not the kind of person to lift anyone else up,. He is rather self absorbed. I used to over look that, in lieu of the security that I had. But now, my body is healthier, and I have a chance at a longer life, and wonder... shouldn't I be healthy in the other areas of my life as well. I hope this question makes sense. I appreciate any feedback on this topic.

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