What am I doing wrong?

WHAT AM I DOING WRONG? IT'S BEEN EXACTLY 4 MONTHS AND I'M DOWN ONLY 53 LBS. WHY? A FRIEND'S WIFE HAD THE SURGERY AFTER ME AND SHE'S DOWN 80 LBS! I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF I'M EATING TO MUCH OR MAYBE NOT ENOUGH OR IS IT THE COMBINATION OF WHAT I AM EATING. I HAVE LEFT SEVERAL MESSAGES TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAD THE SURGERY VIA WEBSITES LONG TERM POST OP AND EITHER THEY ARE TO BUSY OR THEY JUST DON'T WANT TO DEAL WITH QUESTIONS AND GIVING PEOPLE ADVICE. I'D LIKE TO HEAR FROM SOMEONE WHO'S HIT MANY PLATEAUS, WHO HAS SOMEWHAT OF A ROUTINE AS FAR AS WHAT THEY EAT AND WHAT THEY AVOID IN ORDER TO LOOSE WEIGHT FASTER, IF THEY CAN GIVE ME EXAMPLES, OR IF ANYONE CAN DIRECT ME TO A WEBSITE OR A BOOK THAT I CAN PURCHASE THAT WILL HELP ME. SO FAR ALL THE WEBSITES THAT I HAVE GONE INTO DEAL WITH PRE-OP AND QUESTIONS RE: THE "BEFORE" BUT I NEED SOMETHING IN DEPTH AS FAR AS "AFTER". THE DOCTOR'S OFFICE STAFF ARE SO BUSY THEY JUST TELL YOU TO AVOID THE WRONG KINDS OF FOOD, BUT THEY DONT GO INTO DETAILS. YOUR ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED. THANKS DESPERATE

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