How are some of you dealing with those of the opposite sex

trying to flirt or flirting with you? I understand our appearance changes both drastically and dramatically, but the "cat calls", whistling and "don't I know you" are REALLY getting on my nerves!!! I look better (to me) and feel better (especially, considering all of the health problems I had-read my profile)...but I'd much rather not be bothered with the nonsense. How are you dealing with the issue of others flirting with you? As a pastor, I find it lustful because people look at you like they are literally undressing you, as a Christian woman, I don't like it! WLS for me was not for appearance-sake or cosmetic, I decided to have this surgery for my health and so that I could effectively work in the ministry without pain. I'm interested in your comments and suggestions, or if you prefer, please email me at: [email protected] I'd love to hear from you. Prayers & {{{{{HUGS}}}}}}!!!

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