What is the pain level like after the surgery once you are released from the hosppita

I am seriously considering surgery. I have my appointment with the WLS doc. Tomorrow. Everyone I tell about it tries to discourage me. Should I not talk about it? also what is the pain like days after the Lap RNY?

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