Breakup after WLS?... I was just wondering if anyone who met someone before wls....

had broken up because your boyfriend/girlfriend preferred you fat. The reason for my question is this, I have been thinking a lot lately that if I started dating someone who liked me large, would they still like me after surgery? I found a guy on a bbw site who is not necessarily gorgeous, but has a nice face. I am wondering if I should bother emailing him. If something were to happen and then I got my surgery, I am afraid he wouldn't want me anymore if I lost most of my weight. I know, that's probably stinkin' thinkin' right? You know how some men prefer thin women and when they get married, then their wives gain weight after childbirth? Then, he leaves her, because she got fat. I think that is horrible, but I am wondering if the reverse could happen. If a man is a "fat admirer," and prefers larger women, why would he want to stay with a woman is not a bbw anymore? BTW, none of these scenarios has happened to me yet. I just keep seeing all of these pre-ops like me who are married or have boyfriends and am wondering if they could find someone, why can't I? Men in my area DO NOT like fat women, at least not in every place I have been. I don't ever get asked out by men in my church and don't like bars or any other kind of places where a lot of people meet. Anyone can give me advice on these mulitple issues.

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