Anyone else been hurt like this? Anonymous "gifts"

I just found a cassette tape that I had completely forgotten about. It was left for me with the receptionist at work by and anonymous "friend", before I had my WLS. The note said "from someone who loves you and worries about you". It was a recording of a Richard Simmons message. I was so humiliated. I know that this person cares about me, ( I guess) and maybe they did not feel that they could approach me with out hurting my feelings, but you kow what, they did hurt me. Has anyone else ever had this happen? This person has never come to me and discussed weight, nor have they even come to me since I have lost weight and made a comment, I did NOT have WLS because of this tape.It seems like just when you are on top of the world someone tries to knock you down, but I am probably being too sensitive. Would this have hurt anyone else?

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