Relationship help?

When I gained my weight after our children he told me I was an embarassment..we've we have and our share of problems but it seems to me that he's not happy now that I want to get healthy...all he keeps saying is I will leave him once I lose my weight. I told him it shouldn't matter if I was thin or fat that "HE" should have loved unconditionally. I have no intentions on leaving but in the back of my mind I feel he doesn't deserve to be with me once I am thin cuz he should have cared for me if I was fat or thin...ugh..its frustrating and friends have told me they see our relationship not being on good terms once I start to lose..any suggestions? thanks...can even email me :)

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