First Intimate Encounter After WLS - Adult Content

I am over a year post-op. I have not dated much due to my weight. Since wls, I have been seeing a man casually for a while. He has invited me for dinner and a "romantic evening" this weekend. I have not had intimate relations in a long time, and I am nervous. Not only about how long it has been and actually remembering how, but all the sagging skin on my body. I'm very much looking forward to our time together, but don't want to spoil it with worry and embarrassment. Any suggestions? Thanks for letting me post something on the controversial side. Please be kind with your responses. I'm not looking for negative flames.

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