Ok, ok, you've convinced me...

You know, a person doesn't realize how crazy they sound until they post a question and read it and the responses to that question! I really did not realize how irrational I was being. I'm not generally a stupid person, just self negligent. I DO have kids, they are the whole reason I went through with this surgery. So, thanks to all of you who answered my question, I realize how neglecting myself not only affects me, but THEM too! My kids are my life. I would never willingly hurt them, and until now, as crazy as it sounds, I had not even considered what I could be doing to them! So...I went out and bought all my vitamins yesterday,plus everything else that I have heard was good for you. I started exercising and taking walks, and drinking all of my water. I bought protien powder and protien bars, and for the last 2 days I have followed through, and I guarantee you, now that I have perspective, that I will continue to take care of myself. I do want to thank you all for answering honestly. You have opened my eyes. The last thing in the world I would want to do is hurt my boys. Now, once again, like when I first had this surgery, I am looking forward to the future. I can't wait to start feeling the benefits of taking care of myself. Actually, I already feel better, if you can believe that. The exercise makes me feel energized, and the water makes me feel refreshed. I am glad I posted anonymously though...I'm kinda embarrassed now!:) God bless you all and may you all have continued good health!

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