Support?

Hi again. For the people who responded to my problem with my friend and her not being supportive, I wanted to let all of you know that I wrote her a VERY tactful letter to let her know how her comments hurt me. But in that letter I also put down my most personal feelings about how I see myself weight wise. I have NEVER told ANYONE what I told her in that letter. Embarassing stuff like it hurts me when I can't fit into a booth at a resteraunt. I explained to her (even though I don't need to justify myself to her on why I want this surgery) the pro's and con's about the surgery. Well, to make a long story short, she hunted me down where I was getting my hair done and said some nasty things. Then she called back, but my dear friend who is my hairdresser, said I was in the bathroom. I just "lost" it. I cried so hard. I just always thought friends were supposed to support one another no matter what. Even if we don't agree with one another. She also left two more nasty messages on my machine. One telling me that she was only kidding about the "gastric Buddies". I have lost a friend over this weight loss surgery. I started to question if I should even go through with it. Maybe this is a sign that I shouldn't. I don't know. Sorry I'm writting a book. I just wanted you guy's to know what happened. God-Bless and thank you all for your support. It means a lot to me! Kristin

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