After 4 years of not seeing a male friend he found out about my surgery

and now for the past few weeks has been coming to visit me once twice a week. I haven't come out and asked him why he stopped coming around for so long not sure i should. I enjoy his company but in the back of my mind i have to wonder what the reason is that he stayed away so long. My gosh we live in the same town and only saw eachother on the streets or driving by would wave. He had been asking a mutual friend about me frequently just before my surgery when he found out about it. Like i said hes a very nice man very kind and has a great sense of humor. Anyway, my question is what do ya'll think and has anyone had this happen to them? BTW, im 7 weeks out and down 57lbs. YAY ME!! Thanks in advance for your responses. Best wishes to you all

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