Anybody have problems with their spose after weight loss?

My husband and I have been married for 15yrs. We have 5 children. I have been a homemaker and had a weight problem ever since we married. I had the surgery 8=19-02 and lost 220 lbs. I am a size 6 or 7 now. I have gained alot of self confidence and decided to get a job. I started work yesterday. I felt so wonderful! The problem is my husband has critisized my work desicion. He makes fun of me and trys to make me feel guilty. I feel like he's threatened by my happiness. I want to take some courses this winter at college. He says your not smart enough or you think your something now that you have lost weight. Does anybody have any spouse who treats them differently since their weight loss? I also get alot of head turning now that I've lost weight. I love my husband and he doesn't seem to share in my happiness. What do I do?Thanks for all your answers, Beth

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