Is it shallow to think CONTANTLY about how good you will look?

Whenever I sit and think about having WLS, I FANTASIZE about how good (read sexy) I will look, especially to my husband. Sure, I look forward to having extra energy and less back pain, but I don't have any co-morbid conditions that I can look forward to (i.e. getting off diabetic meds). All I can think about is looking good and all the CUTE clothes I am going to wear. Does this make me totally shallow? Should I re-evaluate why I am having this surgery? I keep reading about people who "just want to feel better." Well, I just want to look GOOD...lol, I guess this does make me shallow. What did/do you guys think of?

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