How do you stay sane when people are hurtful?

Hi everyone- I tried to post this question a few days ago, and now I realize I was not following the proper guidelines. I apologize for that, moderator (sorry I don't recall your name). What basically happened was that someone was rude to me in a restaraunt about my obesity and I confronted him. I think the moderator didn't like the abusive comment I made back to the person who was rude first. My question to you all is, how do you stay positive in a obesity hostile, one-size-fits-all world? I try to be a kind and considerate person(really, moderator :o), but I am human and can only take so much. For every 1 person I may confront, there may have been 25 that I ignored. One thing that has really helped me is to go thru the list of the before and after pics....my dream is to have mine posted there someday. But right now, that seems like a far off fantasy. Any answers appreciated. Thanks, Mea

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