6.5 Weeks Post Op, Boyfriend Told His Family and I'm Angry

First of all I am not embarassed about my WLS (LAP RNY 6.5 Weeks) but I made the decision that there were some people I did not want to share with, and my body my decision. So My boyfriend that I told SPECIFICALLY not to tell his Mother just fesses up that he told her about a week post-op. She is not a bad lady, just very "perfect" and opinionated about my relationship with her son... (not to mention my bf and his family are very slender people.) I am SOOOO ANGRY at him because: #1. I trusted him, #2. She asked me about the type of surgery I had about two weeks ago and I fibbed and said gallbladder (I actually did that three years ago) and she knows I lied through my teeth. and #3. It's not like he ever talks to his Mother about ANYTHING, so me made an out of the ordinary call to her to tell her! Has anyone been caught like this?... I don't want to give her the benefit of coming clean, and now my boyfriend told her we'd come over to dinner today (they live about 2 hours away). I'm down 50 lbs and I do NOT want to see her, but if I don't go she'll know something is up too!!!! Any suggestions? Anyone been through this? --LOL thanks for the vent!

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