Maybe one of you can help

I need some advice on how to help my sister think seriously about having this surgery. You see my sister weights at least 380 and wants to have this surgery but her doctor won't give her a date until she loose 30 pounds. He started her on a program, 3 or 5 shakes a day for six weeks, she had to pay 60.00 for the shakes which she did but she hasn't started yet. She's finish with all the test,just waiting for a date, she see how good I've done since surgery but she refused to try to loose the weight(Says the shakes taste nasty). For example I see that she still eats cakes and cookies by the box full, Today she ate 5 pieces of Popeye chicken and all the trimming, she brought 14 pieces and it only her and two kids to feed so I know they didn't eat that much but the box was empty. I asked her son to help her but he said he don't think his mother is serious about the surgery or she would be following the doctor's direction. I know she wants to loose weight and have this surgery (It's all she talks about) But how can I help her without seeming like a nag, which btw she hates when someone gives her advice . Help!!!

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