I am going in for my Lap RNY in exactly one week on the 17th.

I was anxious and excited up till yesterday and now I am terrified of the upcoming surgery. I am usually an upbeat and cool, calm person. I keep wondering about the "what if's". I know this is probably normal, but I keep wondering whether or not I am going to live to see Christmas. No one understands what I am going through, my boyfriend is supportive but just replies "cancel it then". Anyone have any words of wisdom that will help me get past this morbid thoughts?

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