I've lost 40+, but I cant see it, others do HELP!

I am a little over 4 weeks post op and have people telling me they can see it in my face, shoulders, boobs (I am loosing more in my upper body than in my lower)..yes, my clothes are getting looser and I am even wearing some things that I haven't in more than a year, but, I am still having a tough time believing that others really see it as I wonder if they are just being nice! I am also concerned with why my tummy seems to still be the same gross self it was before...I am wearing pants I haven't worn in a long time, they fit great everywhere until it comes to buttoning, I still have to leave the top button undone..I have started to convince myself that the scale at the Dr.'s office is lying & that maybe they are just trying to be nice there..am I completely loosing my mind?? When oh when did you REALLY start to see it yourself..I am down 40+lbs already!

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