What do you tell dates (significant ones) about scars?

I'm a 33 y/o single female, hoping (praying) to have surgery soon. I'm also hoping that someday I'll look back at this question and think it was silly...but I'm trying to consider everything that might be an issue in the future. So here is my question: What do single post-ops tell people they've become intimate with about their scars? How bad is the scarring? I may be a mo woman but I've always been very confident and very VAIN...and I'm just a little scared about the scarring. Gosh, I feel silly.

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