I am scared that guys may start paying attention to me.....

Hi all. I have a wonderful, supportive, and loving boyfriend who loves me just the way I am. He is jealous though, and I feel guilty for talking to guys that I think may be interested in me. Right now, there is one guy that I think is interested and he's attractive and all... but I have a boyfriend! He hasn't come out and said "I want to go out with you". I guess the point is that I'm not used to male attention. I am still preop so this is a shocker to be honest. I am scared that I won't know how to deal with it postop and it will be even worse. I don't want to be rude and just blurt out "I have a boyfriend!" everytime I meet someone, but I don't want to feel like I'm leading a guy on because that makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I tell my boyfriend and then he gets upset and worried that I'll find someone new. Any suggestions? How do attractive people deal with all the attention, while not being rude or leading guys on? I have no social skills when it comes to this. Any suggestions? My boyfriend's suggestion is "tell them to buzz off", but I can't do that just because they say hello. Please help me out here...

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