I have a friend whose thinks this surgery will help her keep her husband

I am 8 months post op and doing wonderful. I have a girlfriend who is 5'5 and weighs 230 lbs. Her marriage has been on the rocks for years. Since I've had my surgery and lost all of this weight she is determine to have it too but only to keep her husband. I explain to her that this has to be about her and her health. She is not hearing me. I want what is best for her but she is so hurt by the fact that her husband has had affairs (twice) with women smaller than her that she is not listening. Any advice would be appreciated. I love her dearly but I want her to think about this. For a large lady she is in good health and has no co-morbs.

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