I'm not sure how to deal with my boyfriend's reactions to my weightloss.

I broke up with my boyfriend last summer and have not seen him much since then. Recently we started seeing each other again. I had surgery in the fall, and have lost around 80 pounds and he does not like it. He makes comments about my breasts shrinking often and tries to get me to overeat or eat things that are not good for me. He is not overweight himself and I don't think he understands my issues, but he IS an admirer of bigger women. We had serious problems in the past due to his temper but so far so good in that dept. I just don't know if it's worth it to try to work this out and continue our relationship. Maybe it's low self esteem causing me to stay in this mess. Any suggestions?

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