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I live in fear that I will be lonely. I have issues as a fat woman now because the men I encounter seem enamored with my fat. They are attracted to me because of my legs or face but overall I never get what I need from the relationships, so I have stopped having them all together. Now that the surgery is on the horizon, I live in fear that I will never be able to find anyone. I know I don't respect men who say that size matters but if I am no longer big how will I be able to fetter these men out? I know it seems like a silly fear to most people but I don't sleep at night with this worry and I still have 6 wks until my surgery. Please help!

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