How do you deal with the sudden attention from the opposite sex?

I'm about 9mos post-op and -110lbs. I've noticed something weird lately: I've been getting a lot of attention from men lately-at least 3 men whom I've known when I was 300+ pounds have suddenly (and blatantly) started hitting on me. I don't know what to make of it. Don't get me wrong, I'm HAPPILY married. It's very strange though -when I was younger, it was my dream to have guys desire me instead of my thinner, more attractive friends, but now while it's flattering, it's also terrifying. I don't know. I'd just appreciate any feedback you could give me. Thanks and God bless us all...

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