WLS Success-through Powerful Positive Attitudes
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All About Life Radio Tip #6: Drink! Are you drinking enough water? Want to improve your memory, reduce stress, headaches and muscle pain, enhance your heart health and even make your skin smoother? Drinking enough water can do all that and more. Have an extra glass of water in the afternoon instead of a soda or a snack and you may find... it enhances your energy and even satisfies what you thought was hunger. Try an extra glass today!
Don't know if you know about this or not, but there is a website www.healthydiningfinder.com. You can plug in your zip code and it will provide you with healthy dining options at resturants near you. It not only give you restuarant ideas, but it tells you what to order and what special requests to make, if needed.
So if you are stuck on where you want to go because you don't know healthy dining options available, try it.
It is pretty cool.
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If you are on the Dallas area, on Tuesday, January 18th at 6:30, Dr. John Burns will be coming to the TLCEdge Support Group meeting in Plano, TX to talk about Obesity and Post Weight Loss Reconstruction Surgery. He is awesome and has done work on myself and several of my WLS Friends.
The meeting is located at:
The Texas Clinic at Prestonwood
6957 W. Plano Parkway
Plano, Tx
972-820-9033
Thank you as always my love! You are the very VERY best!
hugs, Y
p.s. For those that want to know the show is called "Heavy".
Open RNY 3/30/01 260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog! Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page. Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨
See below link of a new reality show coming A&E. I saw it this morning on Good Morning America!! It looks like it is going to be better than The Biggest Loser because they have built in time for the mental issues that plague the morbidly obese.
http://www.aetv.com/heavy/?vid=AETV_Marketing_Horizon_20101228-Heavy_YuMe
I hate I am going to miss it because I do not have cable TV? Does anyone know if they have their shows on line to watch?
I will try to catch up on posts over the weekend. Very busy at work today!
I just wanted to tell everyone to have a good weekend!! One day at at time!
Shopping is definitely weird! I had this lady who kept getting in my way at T. J. Maxx. I would move away from her and she would follow and push me out of the aisle! So I said something. She yelled at me that she had to be in this "section/ plus sized" where I did not have to be there. So little did she know - she gave me a pretty good compliment! :)
What a great job!
by Katie Jay, MSW, Certified Wellness Coach
Director, National Association for Weight Loss Surgery
www.nawls.com
While nearly everyone who has WLS achieves some measure of
success, some people do much better than others -- and not just
in the measure of their weight.
Winning at WLS is not a size, it's a whole state of being.
Winning at WLS means achieving a weight that creates the
opportunity for you to live a full, healthy, and satisfying life
-- and then getting out there and living it.
So what do WLS winners do?
Winners Manage Their Focus
WLS winners tend to have a structure to their lives so that they
almost always know what they are really supposed to be doing.
They don't leave things to chance. They stay focused on their
goal to be healthy and let that shape their lives.
They learn time management and schedule in their WLS needs. They
focus on what is important (buying vitamins if they have run out)
rather than on what the world thinks is important (baking cup
cakes for a party).
Winners Design a Plan that Fits Their Life
Winners learn how to shape a life that works for them. They
figure out where they are likely to struggle and build in
strategies to minimize their troubles in those areas.
They use timers, always keep protein supplements in their car,
keep food out of sight so they don't snack, or keep a case of
water in their trunk -- whatever will work for them.
Winners Use Resources to Help Them
Winners are information seekers. They don't assume that what
they were taught about WLS at one point in time is sufficient
information. They continue to learn, seek help, and find tools
that will keep them on track.
They understand that they may need help to go from being at
goal weight to being happy and comfortable with their new life.
Are You Reluctant to Win?
Some people are very uncomfortable with winning. So, they resist
it. They struggle with the last 20 pounds to avoid being at goal.
Of course, they don't necessarily know they're doing this.
Not doing your best is a form of self defense. If you don't try
hard, you protect your ego from the experience of trying hard
and failing -- a scary proposition.
Value the Pain of Losing
Anyone who struggles with weight will fail from time to time. But
that doesn't mean you will fail in the long run. By trying your
best, even if you experience some failure from time to time, you
will ultimately have a more meaningful life.
By getting comfortable with failing, and then trying again, you
will eventually win.
Accept that Winning Can Be Confusing and Uncomfortable
Winning brings on a whole new set of uncomfortable feelings.
Maybe you don't want to cause others to feel like losers as
they compare themselves to you. Maybe you don't like the
attention winning brings.
Whatever the discomfort, win anyway. You will learn to tolerate
success. Just give it time.
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Check Out Our Daily Inspirations!
Here's a Daily Inspiration from NAWLS. To find more, visit
us online at www.nawls.com/public/department27.cfm
Don't make WLS lifestyle decisions based on your feelings.
In 12-step programs there is a saying. There are only two times
to go to a 12-step meeting: when you want to go and when you don't
want to go.
How can you apply this philosophy to your WLS lifestyle? Do you
think it is a good idea to base what you do (with exercise and
food choices) on how you feel?
If you only do the right thing when you feel like it, how likely
are you to lose your excess weight and keep it off for life?
Action for the day: Today, do what you have planned to do that
supports your WLS success. For example, don't base your decision
to exercise on whether or not you feel like it. Do it because you
have planned to do it. No excuses.
(c) 2011, Katie Jay. All rights reserved.
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National Association for Weight Loss Surgery.
Subscribe today and get your F'REE report,
How to Regain-proof Your Weight Loss
Surgery at www.NAWLS.com.
(c) 2011 National Association for Weight Loss Surgery,
Inc. All rights reserved.
ConGradulations!!! ONEderland is a ONEderful place to be isn't it!
The mental part really is quite a hurdle. I can't say that I am totally "there" yet, but I am well on my way. It took me a long time before I was able to stop doing a double take when passing a window or a mirror, "Oh Ya!" "Im not fat anymore!" Realizing that not only am I not a 1x anymore I am not even a medium sometimes. WLS works on our bodies, it is up to us to work on our minds.
It's a great journey my friend. As bumpy as my road has been at times, I wouldn't change it, because it has made me who I am. And I can honestly say I really Like who I am.
Be Well
Just when the Catipillar thought the world was over
....She became a Butterfly
300+ /260/ 140 Current BMI 22.4 /No Longer a #, just were my body is Happy
Highest Weight/ at surgery/ current /Goal