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(deactivated member)
on 3/16/10 11:04 am - NY
Topic: RE: Am I really being that unreasonable?
No...you are only human.

I'm sorry I cant be much help with your situation but you can vent anytime
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{{HUGS}}
Tressa

(deactivated member)
on 3/16/10 10:58 am - NY
Topic: RE: DENIED??? Are they SERIOUS?
Hang in there Girl..... It will happen. 

Prayers for a speedy appeal process.

{{HUGS}}
Tressa
(deactivated member)
on 3/16/10 10:54 am - NY
Topic: RE: Welcome our new member whatachief!
Welcome Diana,

   I was also scared and kept thinking What am I doing????  but that passed. Definitely do  your research and you will find what is right for you. I also did Optifast many moons ago when I was 21. I lost 60 pounds and kept it off for about a year and a half. At that time I found my love to exercise. I am not athletic like my family but I became addicted to aerobic classes. I also loved to go to the gym. Just don't ask me to play soccer or swing a golf club...unless its minature golf. LOL
As the weight did come back plus more I  stayed away from these activities because I was uncomfortable with my body and thought people were looking at me. I just got released to go back to the gym and I am excited to start again.
   I am also allergic to my fur babies but I cant resist. I may not be able to always smell the roses because of a stuffy or runny nose, but  I cant turn down a purring kitty.
Anyway welcome aboard

Tressa
mrsfrogdr
on 3/16/10 10:33 am
Topic: Am I really being that unreasonable?
My insurance requires me to do a three month diet and have a psych eval for approval...that's it.


So, I called to make an appointment.  I was told I must go to a seminar and take my insurance information so that coverage could be verified even though I already knew I was covered.  So, I went to the doctor's required seminar in early Sept and of course did not hear anything I had not already learned on OH.  A few weeks later, I receive a letter congratulating me that my insurance covered WLS and asking me to call and schedule an appointment.  So, I called and called and called.  For three weeks I left a weekly voicmail.  Finlay, the coordinator Finlay answered her line and of course had a story about how she had been out the previous week with the flu...no mention of the other two weeks that the calls were not returned. So, my first appointment was delayed until the end of Nov. 

So, the end of Jan rolls around and I go for what I thought was my last presubmition visit but, the nut insisted we had to meet once more.  So I wait one more month. Go in for the "last" visit.  I am called up the front counter and told  we don't need to meet after all.  We could have and should have submitted after my previous visit like I had thought.  So, deep breathing and counting till ten I walk back to my car for the hour drive back home.  I stop in the car to call the insurance coordinator to make sure I have everything else done.  I get her voice mail which requested I leave one message ("multiple messages were not necessary") and she would get back to me.  So, one week later, I call and apologize for leaving a "multiple message" but remind her that I have still not heard from her.  Two more days go by and still no response....so, I call and complain.  I am directed to the office manager...and sent to ....you guessed it her voice mail. ...and surprise two days go by before she returns my call....


So, the office manager Finlay calls to explain that the insurance coordinator's father had a heart attack and was going to have a quad bypass the following day (keep in mind this is over two weeks after my original call to the insurance coordinator)...and the insurance coordinator would try to come in just to submit my paperwork the next  day and I should expect a call from her.  NO call....so, I call the office today and I am told she has still not returned and is not expected to this week...and once again sent to the office manager's voice mail.  And surprise no return call.


So, one one hand my mom had a heart attack and by\pass when I was 19 and I remember how frightening that was.  So, I want to be understanding ...but...On the other hand my mom was 40 when she had her heart attack and was much less obese than I am and did not have diabetes the way I do AND I am turning 39 next week.  I feel like I have a time bomb inside me.  I know surgery will not keep me from having a heart attack but I hope it will make it possible for me to survive it. 

At this point if the Insurance coordinator had not caused any delays with her health and family issues I would have been 6 weeks further in this journey and if the nut had also not caused another delay I would be 10 weeks further in this journey.  So, I am SO Frustrated!!!!!   I just do not know what to do....I have tried complaining...and I am now concerned that the quality of care I receive will not be the best.


Am I really that horrible for being mad and scared?
Big Frog Kisses,           
 DAWN   
                 
 
                            
(deactivated member)
on 3/16/10 10:28 am - NY
Topic: RE: Hello from a perplexed newbie...
Welcome Greg,

    It was nice meeting you last week Wednesday at the Terri's group. Congrats on the 16 pounds and also graduating to more solid food. This is your journey and no two people are alike. Try not getting hung up on the scale. I refuse to weigh myself at home right now. I decided to weigh myself at my chiropractor's before my Arnot group( every 3rd Wednesday) and at my doctor's appointments only. Make sure you take measurements because success can happen in many different forms, and they do not have to be weight related. I am off one of my blood pressure pills already and I am ecstatic about that. Going to try out for the lead role is another success for you. These steps are all great.
   Like Yvonne said take this time to make the changes we need to. I found myself yesterday wanting to eat for comfort and not hunger. My first day back to work was yesterday. I don't know if I was just tired, needing a reward for making it through the day or just going back to old habits. I realized what was going on but it is definitely head work we have to involve in this journey. We wont be perfect by any means but each day we learn something new and pick ourselves up and move on.

You Can do it and its OK to be impatient now and then. We all understand. 

P.S.  I received the Wild Cherry calcium lozenges and they are OK better than breaking apart horse pills.LOL You are right though... they do take 10-15 minutes to dissolve. I started to chew one and found them way to chalky. So I will let them dissolve
JEllen
on 3/16/10 2:59 am - Capital Region, NY
Topic: RE: Hypo Help..... Please.
Hi... you REALLY need to call your doctor...
in the meantime if you are feeling that weak... instead of the apple have a little ORANGE JUICE.

at this point... with NO hunger... you need to eat by the clock not by when you are feeling hungry... because you won't eat... and then you will get weak and have these issues.

protein first, and a little complex carbs it keeps you going...

but don't forget CALL YOUR DOCTOR...

do it please....

we care...

don't delay...
  
Yvonne McCarthy
on 3/16/10 2:48 am - Plano, TX
Topic: RE: Hello from a perplexed newbie...
And what's next after that???? LITTLEscrappingirlie!! 

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com     .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

Yvonne McCarthy
on 3/16/10 2:36 am - Plano, TX
Topic: RE: DENIED??? Are they SERIOUS?
I've heard so many stories about people being denied over someone missing a spot that needed to be initialed.  On top of that they didn't even tell the person that was the reason!!!  You hang in there Suzy.  Don't give up and I want you to visualize yourself having your surgery...see yourself checking in and going to the hospital.  Keep us posted and I'm so glad you've got someone fighting for you!
hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com     .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

Yvonne McCarthy
on 3/16/10 2:31 am - Plano, TX
Topic: RE: Hypo Help..... Please.
Sweetie, please call your doc.  I'm thinking until you can get an answer that you ought to keep those apples coming and eat several little meals.  I know JEllen can probably help with this too.  I'm certainly a novice at this stuff but I know so many do have to eat several little meals to keep their blood sugar up.  Please let me know how you're doing.
hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com     .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

bigscrappingirlie
on 3/15/10 12:33 pm - Davenport, IA
Topic: RE: Hello from a perplexed newbie...
Lilitu..LMAO  Thanks for the encouragement..someday when I have time I hope to be on the stage again..I love the MEDIUMscrappingirlie..I ROTFL :)
   
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