WLS Success-through Powerful Positive Attitudes

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JEllen
on 3/25/10 7:10 am - Capital Region, NY
Topic: RE: A Quick Check In
What an awesome WOW moment! 
Glad the lady didn't fall over!  lol

You must look "willowly"...

I love that term... tall,thin, moves so beautifully... gracefully.  swish...
I'll get thinner but I'll never be willowly.... I'm just not tall enough for that...
  
Molly S.
on 3/25/10 1:11 am - Chicago, IL
Topic: RE: Hello - New member
Thanks Yvonne.  I exercise at home with walking away the pound DVD,s.  But today I resolved to get back to the health club next month for sure.  April will  not pass without me going to healthclub.  Thanks again for your very encouraging words.  NO more shame for me.....

       HW 611  Pre-opW 580   LW 302  GW 238         
              

Lilitu
on 3/24/10 12:03 pm - Bay Area , CA
Topic: A Quick Check In

Greetings my Dear Friends:

I think the second bad thing about being back to work (the first being less time with darling DH) is that I have so much less time for hello's in my favorite online family.

I had a fun Wow yesterday. As some may know I sell fine jewelry at a local department store. I had taken a walk downstairs and was standing next to one of the displays when two mature ladies walked by. I stood still to let them walk by and when they passed I started to walk again, one of them jumped back and said "OMG you scared me!! I thought you were a mannequin!" "You're so tall thin and pretty" LOL It did make an otherwise dull day a bit smilier.

I have been having a bit of a time with my blood surgar latley, keeping it up that is.  I haven't been having super lows, but keeping it at 100 has been difficult. My family, in particular my dh and my dad think that I now need to gain weight.  I have a normal bmi (5'6" & 130 = 20.9 bmi) Honestly, gaining on purpose just does not feel like on option.  I just had my labs drawn, if the labs say I need to put on some weight then I will of course look at doing that. How has anyone else delt with this?

Hope all is well with you my dear Friends.

 


    Just when the Catipillar thought the world was over

                         ....She became a Butterfly   

 

                                  300+ /260140 Current BMI 22.4 /No Longer a #, just were my body is Happy
                                 Highest Weightat surgery/ current /Goal

             


JEllen
on 3/24/10 11:20 am - Capital Region, NY
Topic: RE: Another New Member-meet Diane324
WELCOME DIANE! 

Glad to have you here with us! Each one of us have our internal & external struggles... that we have tried to battle with food... (we all know how well ..... that doesn't work)
we are here for you!


keep in touch!

JEllen
  
JEllen
on 3/24/10 11:16 am - Capital Region, NY
Topic: RE: Attitude of Gratitude!
Point well taken...

Which is exactly why I wanted to have the surgery in the first place. The things I enjoy doing were really beginning to impacted in a negative way. I knew if I didn't get myself under control I would soon have to lessen the extent of sharing in so many things that give me the greatest joy.

I also wanted to be in the position of greater priveleges perhaps being able to share in relief work in other countries when diasters strike. If I'm not healthy enough to share here... there certainly would be no point in me considering trying to go elsewhere. Besides...
I WAS NOT getting a passport with me being MO.

I'm looking forward to a new driver's license photo this year! and of course, getting that passport photo taken FINALLY!

I am very grateful for this second chance to really live my life!
  
Traci Baker
on 3/23/10 5:02 pm
Topic: Attitude of Gratitude!
Hi all-

It's 2:45am and thought I would start the day off by saying "Good Morning" and I hope you have a FABULOUS day! 

Wanted to share a Daily Inspiration by Katie Jay that I read this week that can hit home some times!

Contribute: Being obese made your life smaller.  You were less able to do even simple activities.  You may have spent more time worrying about your woes, rather than figuring out what you could contribute to your community.  Following WLS, your energy increases as well as your ability to focus on positive efforts.

Now, you're able to contribute time, energy and attention outside yourself.  Maybe you want to be a foster parent.  Or volunteer to help with a cause you've always wished you had the energy and stamina to support.  You might just want to bring a meal to a sick friend or help your spouse with the yard work. 

Whatever you do, approach it with gratitude for your new ability to help others!

Attitude of gratitude~

What is something you always wanted to do for someone else?

Have a great day~
Trac~

I am a Bariatric patient/professional, an Obesity Help Support Group Leader and Certified Life Coach.  I consider myself to be one of the biggest advocates for obesity in my community. My goal is to educate the public on obesity as a disease and give back to the bariatric community through my personal experiences and life coaching.

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mrsfrogdr
on 3/23/10 1:29 pm
Topic: RE: Am I approved or being stalled????
Oh, I called and got voice mail AGAIN....yes it is starting to seem lol funny to me too.....I wonder how long I will have to wait this time for a returned call....so I went a head and called another surgeon....will meet with them next week I think....I guess I need to call first thing in the morning and ask for my reccords....
Big Frog Kisses,           
 DAWN   
                 
 
                            
Yvonne McCarthy
on 3/23/10 1:05 pm - Plano, TX
Topic: RE: Am I approved or being stalled????
Call the doc's office and ask them!  I don't know if you read it but that happened to me (again it was a LONG time ago) and someone told me on the phone but I wasn't and had to wait for some special thing to be approved.  It certainly sounds good but of course you never know until you hear it from your doc.

Like I told Suzy, I've got everything crossed that I can cross.  I just know it has to happen and I can't wait for your frustration to end.  Bless your heart.....you've been through ENOUGH!
hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com     .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

mrsfrogdr
on 3/23/10 12:56 pm
Topic: RE: Another New Member-meet Diane324
Hi Diane,

It is nice to meet you.  I think you have done an awesome job with WLS...I am still trying to get there.

I am a teacher of 12-14 year olds and a mom too.  Girl that age is HARD to deal with and when you add the neurological complications...oh momma!!!!.....and nothing is black and white with humans....especially kids....hang in there....


This group is great about posative support.  But do not feel like you ever have to put on the positive smile and pretend its all great for us....becuase your right.... thats not the way to get your needs met....just know that no one will bully you or put you down....now they may give you advice that makes you think....and it might on a rare occasion be as uncomfortable as an intense therapy session....but you will always know it comes from a place of caring...and that is an increadable resource....I am so glad you are here.....you are amoung kidered spirits.
Big Frog Kisses,           
 DAWN   
                 
 
                            
Yvonne McCarthy
on 3/23/10 11:52 am - Plano, TX
Topic: RE: New Date - April 19, 2010
I'm crossing everything I've got but I know you'll be announcing it soon!!!  And yes it happens when it's supposed to and I can't wait to hear!!!!!!!!!!!
hugs, Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com     .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

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