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I'm soooooooooooo jealous!!  (But happy for you at the same time)  I LOVE LOVE LOVE the beach and water and sunshine.  Isn't it wonderful???  I can remember buying one of those huge dresses at the beach to try to cover up before surgery.  It was always bright yellow or red or white.  I wasn't fooling anyone so I can so relate to what you're saying about actually sitting and soaking up the sun.  Enjoy every minute to the fullest and remember the sand in between your toes.  Life is good!
hugs, Y

I spent years there until I was given this option. (A group)  It totally wore me out so I try to drop in and help when a thread is newly posted before it turns nasty. That's often why someone joins this group.   If it turns into a war I'm gone.  You have to realize that some of the bullies have a posse and no matter what the bully says the posse will find ways to take up for them.  That's mob mentality type stuff and is the furthest from reality that you can get.  You never know if you're talking to a troll or a bully or what.  I was totally shocked that someone blocked me and I finally figured out why. It was a total accident that I found out she blocked me because  I apparently  helped one of her arch enemies on a off topic question.  WOW...

There was a part of me that tried so hard to make the main a better place but the bullies will continue until someone with power decides differently.  I watch the lives tick away that could be helped but I can't do a thing about it except be a good example of a giving, supportive member.  The main board is not for the faint of heart.  You were right but some people live for something to jump on and they did.
hugs, Y

I am so proud of you.  I was not sure you would post--but you did and I see you received much love and support.  You are dealling with some heavy life issues and you need all the support you can get.  I will will continue to keep you and family in my prayers.
Hugs,
Molly

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Daily Inspiration for February 13, 2010 Katie Jay, MSW

Appreciate imperfection.

Some of the most precious gems in the world have flaws that do not diminish their worth. When a diamond is a deep yellow or brown, it is considered more valuable. So, what you might assume is a serious flaw is really a great strength.  

Do you judge yourself by impossible standards? Do you berate yourself for lack of perfection? Your flaws make you unique and precious. Your sensitivity means you are compassionate. Not looking perfect makes you approachable. Surviving pain brings others hope. You are not a worthless rock; you are a precious gem. 

Action for the day: Think of three people you admire. In your journal, describe their flaws. How do their flaws make them unique and precious? What flaws might people appreciate in you? 
© 2009, Katie Jay. All rights reserved.

Ha!  Sometimes I thin****pt going back to read the drama and just laugh out loud!! Tee Hee..


BTW I am SO loving the RNY - Ready for the New You... That rocks...