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Yvonne McCarthy
on 5/20/10 10:30 pm - Plano, TX
Topic: See you guys after Sunday
I'm so sorry I've been away...I see many posts that I want to respond to but I have to leave for California.  While I'm gone I'd really appreciate you guys checking in and I'm really pleased how much support has been given in the last few days.  You guys are awesome!!  I'll be back with pictures of course.  I love you all!
hugs Y

Open RNY 3/30/01  260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog!  Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com     .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨

thinner56
on 5/20/10 5:22 am - WV
Topic: RE: New Member
Thank you for the welcome, and I really need positivity!!! I am always open for any good suggestions anyone may have.  I noticed you ha ur surgery in 2007, have you been able to keep all the weight off once you met your goal?  I need all the encouragement that I can get.Sorry I did'nt get back before this, but my computer was out.


roxie
thinner56    
Molly S.
on 5/20/10 3:30 am - Chicago, IL
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed
That is why I feel your pain.  I could never do the protien drinks either.  It will pass, I promise....:-)

       HW 611  Pre-opW 580   LW 302  GW 238         
              

_Suzy_
on 5/20/10 3:07 am - Lawrenceville, GA
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed
Are you SURE??       This WILL get better???

Actually one thing on my side -- I am not missing food at all.  That would really be killer.  I am feeling better today - but I have to find a way to get protein in me.  I cannot do protein shakes.  I tried one today and my pouch started snarling - so oh well!  sigh...


Suzy


Start Weight     309    
Surgery              301
Current               206

O M G - I am down over 100#.  



    
Molly S.
on 5/20/10 1:33 am - Chicago, IL
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed
Hi Suzy,

I could not read all the replies, but it is so normal to feel like I should not have had surgery in the 1st 2 months.  But I promise you it will get better for you.  All the symtoms you have are normal.  I had 3 very rough months.  And more than once I questioned my decision to have surgery within those 3 months.  Plus I was very depressed about missing food.  But after I saw the lost weight in 3 months it made it all worth it.  In the 4th month I was on cloud nine!  So hang in there and consider these bumps in the road.  The road will be very clear in a few weeks are so and you will be like I lost xxx pounds and feeling great!  I assure you this too shall pass......:-) 

Hugs,
Molly
_Suzy_
on 5/19/10 10:59 am - Lawrenceville, GA
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed
LOL I just now caught that last line...hahahah.  Yeah I would like a bit more sleep.  Ahh, can't wait for the weekend!!!!
Suzy


Start Weight     309    
Surgery              301
Current               206

O M G - I am down over 100#.  



    
_Suzy_
on 5/19/10 3:55 am - Lawrenceville, GA
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed
Oh yeah I do wait the 30 minutes.....

I guess I am going to have to break down and give the greek yogurt a try.  blueberry jelly sounds yummy.

Hmm...egg drop soup....that's an idea!  Right now I am enjoying a "pinto's and cheese" again from TAco Bell.  Hey if it works, right?

Thanks!
Suzy


Start Weight     309    
Surgery              301
Current               206

O M G - I am down over 100#.  



    
whatachief
on 5/19/10 3:05 am, edited 5/19/10 3:07 am
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed
I wish I could help more!  I know my nutritionist went over the various food stages and what to eat and when... but i dont have the list here at my desk today!  I will check tonight see if I have any additional thoughts for you...
I am thinking:

Tomato soup with milk
cottage cheese
no sugar no fat greek yogurt - and you can mix some sugar free blueberry jelly with it...
egg drop soup

Also - maybe wait 30 minutes or more before adding fluids after your meal?  (sorry i know i am guessing here as I havent had the surgery yet...)

hang tough!!  we are rooting for you!

D

JEllen
on 5/18/10 10:54 am - Capital Region, NY
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed
oh yeah... early out it is almost impossible to balance the protein and the fluids.... so try a couple of different protein shakes and see what works for you.

I like Atkins (available just about anywhere) ready to drink... lots of flavors. but also like OH YEAH... banana and vanilla flavors.

It's all experimental at this point.

Once I was on soft foods... I would put a couple of tbsps of refried beans on a plate with a couple of tbsps of ricotta on top, finish off with a little tomato sauce and called it.... a fake lasagna! 

Also... egg drop soup... fluid & protein!

This morning I had an egg with a little cheese melted on it. Kinda like an omlet.. not fancy... just a quick soft set egg w cheese. First time in FOREVER since I've been able to eat an egg without having a problem.
Success is within your reach! 

Glad you are feeling a little better today!


Don't forget .... you are still just a short time out from surgery... so   don't neglect your sleep!!!





HEY quiet everybody!  Dontcha know SUZY needs her beauty sleep????

All recent post-ops NEED more sleep!  Most of us NEED more sleep than what we usually get on a regular basis.
So enjoy it while you can! 
Lilitu
on 5/18/10 9:14 am - Bay Area , CA
Topic: RE: Feeling very lost and overwhelmed

Oh good I am so glad it helps. Word to the wise though.... DO NOT add powdered protien to your cream of wheat   O-M-G oh ya, I thought I was being So slick. I'll just make this even healthier I thought. I think is swelled up in my little pouchie I think that was the worst dump to date!! I thought I was going to have to call 911... LOL

Protein Protein Protein is the mantra, but in the small amounts we eat in the very beginning there is no way to get all of the protein we need at our meals, so I believe this is the time to learn the balanced diet we will be doing later.

As for the fluids, I have never been able to drink large amounts of water, it actually makes me gag. Keep looking for stuff, get one of everything until you find something you can tolerate.  Do you have a water filter at home? If your water is anything like mine it's not palitable from the tap. My favorite crystal light is the strawberry, I also like the sf sobe. If those don't work, try squeezing a lemon or an orange into a pitcher of iced water, or add melon balls, anything to get your fluids in. 

I looked up the pinto's and cheese the serving size they sell is about 4.5 oz (128grms) so it may hurt your tummy. For me beans seem to not be a very good choice  because they are high in carbs.  Although sometimes we get caught out and about and we have to find something and you did awesome taking your time eating and taking your time chewing. Many of us are speed eaters and it is a difficult habit to break.  You WILL get this my friend and that overwhelmed feeling will be a very distant memory.

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