Allow yourself to experience emotions.

Borrow away!  It is so true.  I love my new stomach.  ZERO regrets.  I would do this again in a heartbeat. 

Great one Molly.  People pleasers are particularly good at this because that way we don't have to be ourselves....we are being the person others want us to be.  I have seen so many people in this community with lots of walls...including me.  I have torn down most of the exterior ones but there is that last impenetrable one that no one has been behind.  I'm not sure I've been there and it's still scary but I know I need to break through to really get healthy.
hugs, Y