WLS Success-through Powerful Positive Attitudes
Hello everyone!
Welcome Brad,
You will love this group. Everyone is so kind and there's no in your face type arguments going on. I came across one of your posts when you were attacked awhile back and I couldn't believe it .....anyway I usually stay away from the main boards. This group is great for support and education. I'm like Katie in that my husband and I have both have had RNY surgery. His was open about a year ago and mine was lap 14 days ago. I think it does help to have the both of us going through it. I have to admit when hubby went first I did have some insecuritites at the beginning when he received more attention from the opposite sex. Just remember to tell your wife how much you love her. I know you do, but its good to reinforce that and trust me even if she doen't verbalize her fears, those little things will make her feel much better.
Tressa
You will love this group. Everyone is so kind and there's no in your face type arguments going on. I came across one of your posts when you were attacked awhile back and I couldn't believe it .....anyway I usually stay away from the main boards. This group is great for support and education. I'm like Katie in that my husband and I have both have had RNY surgery. His was open about a year ago and mine was lap 14 days ago. I think it does help to have the both of us going through it. I have to admit when hubby went first I did have some insecuritites at the beginning when he received more attention from the opposite sex. Just remember to tell your wife how much you love her. I know you do, but its good to reinforce that and trust me even if she doen't verbalize her fears, those little things will make her feel much better.
Tressa Thaks Tressa, I appreciate the kind words.
Yeah, I about left the boards the last time I was attacked. It was insane. Having 20 people pile on a new post op was ridiculous. But I don't want to bring that negativity here. Everyone seems like great people over here and I am glad I was accepted into the "family"! :)
Yeah, I about left the boards the last time I was attacked. It was insane. Having 20 people pile on a new post op was ridiculous. But I don't want to bring that negativity here. Everyone seems like great people over here and I am glad I was accepted into the "family"! :)
my RNY! It saved my life! 
Get Ready for the New You!
Hey Brad!
Welcome and congrats.
You know-all these things take time. New body, new life and ultimately new mind. I don't think our bodies change without our minds changing too! LOL! That is LOTS of change.
Just wanted to pop in and say hello. This board is absolutely warm and welcoming-and a good safe place to share as well.
Look forward to seeing you here!!
Peace,
T
Welcome and congrats.
You know-all these things take time. New body, new life and ultimately new mind. I don't think our bodies change without our minds changing too! LOL! That is LOTS of change.
Just wanted to pop in and say hello. This board is absolutely warm and welcoming-and a good safe place to share as well.
Look forward to seeing you here!!
Peace,
T
Hi Red, I have seen you around the main board. It is very good to see you here! I don't think we have spoken much, so I will take the time to say hello, and it is very nice to meet you! I would write more, but I am about to fall asleep at the keyboard! :)
my RNY! It saved my life! Get Ready for the New You!
