WLS Success-through Powerful Positive Attitudes
Wow Moment- You're Not Even The Sex I Want!!!
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on 9/25/09 4:47 pm
on 9/25/09 4:47 pm
(DISCLAIMER- I am a VERY happily married heterosexual. The following thread was an actual incident. It is not meant to demean others of different orientations.)
So, I am shopping alone in Home Depot and this well dressed, tall athletic black man, walks by and smiles at me. I think nothing of it and smile back to be polite. Then he keeps maneuvering to run into me. And he literally and very deliberately looks me up a down and then smiles and winks at me.
Yes girls, I now know first hand how it feels. YUCK!
Of course I'm not wearing my wedding ring because it is too loose. So, on the one hand I guess I should be flattered but on the other hand, OMG do I look GAY!
And yes, I know the is no one gay "look." The remark was meant to describe my feelings and not to stereotype those of a different orientation.
I spent countless hours trying to think of the advantages and disadvantages of surgery. Somehow this one never crossed my mind.
LOL,
Chris
So, I am shopping alone in Home Depot and this well dressed, tall athletic black man, walks by and smiles at me. I think nothing of it and smile back to be polite. Then he keeps maneuvering to run into me. And he literally and very deliberately looks me up a down and then smiles and winks at me.
Yes girls, I now know first hand how it feels. YUCK!Of course I'm not wearing my wedding ring because it is too loose. So, on the one hand I guess I should be flattered but on the other hand, OMG do I look GAY!
And yes, I know the is no one gay "look." The remark was meant to describe my feelings and not to stereotype those of a different orientation.I spent countless hours trying to think of the advantages and disadvantages of surgery. Somehow this one never crossed my mind.
LOL,
Chris
Kathy!
I think you are adorable that you are secure enough in your sexuality that you can make light of this. There's nothing wrong to be attractive to everyone. Awesome story!
hugs, Y
hugs, Y
Open RNY 3/30/01 260lbs - 130lbs 
Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog! Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page. Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨
Chris is always good for big fun here. I think it's cool that Chris can be cool about that anyway. When we start feeling better about ourselves we start to glow and people will notice and that's the part I like.
hugs, Y
hugs, Y
Open RNY 3/30/01 260lbs - 130lbs Yvonne McCarthy, CLC. Health & Wellness Coach (full time volunteer). I am happy to help if I can. Visit www.bariatricgirl.com and see the Bariatric Girl blog! Also check out my Facebook Bariatric Girl Page. Photography site www.yvonnemccarthy.com .„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨„ø¤º°¨ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ¨°º¤ø„¸¸„ø¤º°¨
