hello newly banded sept 4th

hello everyone.  i just wanted to say hi and introduce myself.  my name is Diana and i was banded on Sept 4th.  i am looking for a group that i can get advice and ask questions.  this is one of the toughest things that i have every done but i am finding that each day is getting a little bit better.  i hope to get a chance to talk to you all soon.

Diana

Diana,

This is a wonderfully, positive, supportive group.  We follow the example of our kind and fearless leader, Yvonne.  She insists that we all be on our best behavior, and leads by example.  You will find lots of good words and support along your journey.

Wishing the best for you,

Kathy

Kathy,  thank you so much for the wonderful support.  i know i am going to like it here.  can i ask you a question.  how did you get your counter down at the bottom of you posts?  I have been tring to figure this out for days and can not.

Diana

Awwwwww, thanks so much for the kind and fearless part,  That made my day!!!
hugs, Y

Welcome Welcome Diana! 
I can't offer comments about the band since I am RNY- but we all have our struggles and successes! So stick around I'm sure someone will help with your band related issues.

Welcome Diana!!  We are here to help.  I'd particularly like to hook you up with Monica who is our band star among others.

Right now you are going through a type of withdrawal.  We are so used to using food to self medicate our pain, our stress, our fear, wanting to numb our feelings and right now you're probably feeling a little irritable, restless and discontent.  This will pass.  Try to distract yourself with things you like to do.  Rest, sleep if you can.  Read, read, read about others stories but be careful and stay away from the "nasties" OK?  This place is a safe haven so ask any questions you'd like.  We've got people from all walks of life and different surgeries and different amounts of years experience.  Consider us your new family and there are no dumb questions AT ALL.  Just stay away from bad self talk and try to replace it with positive reinforcement OK?  Is there anything in particular that is bothering you right now.... try to not worry into the future because right now is all we have.  So ask away sweetie, we are here for you!
hugs Y