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Argh, sending flowers is always fraught, will they arrive, what will they look like? One time I was in charge of sending flowers for our department to one of our deans who was very sick. She sent me a picture of the flowers and they were terrible. I had them replaced gratis, and she sent a picture of the next bouquet and asked, Did you use your teacher's voice? Haha, maybe. But I see on Facebook your flowers did arrive and they are beautiful.
I do love cut flowers. It's a beautiful luxury. Over the years, DH has picked up his floral game, and now has a preferred florist. We all have our preferences in life, and I love that my man has proper suits for special occasions even though he didn't need them for work, and he has a florist. :)
We had a lovely and busy day yesterday. We went to a sweet brewery on a river for a birthday party. 37th birthday of a young man we've known since he was 5. He's married now with a darling wife and little on year old. His Dad is DHs best friend and our chosen family. We left the party in Minneapolis,and drove home, got dressed for the Opera and headed out to St. Paul, where we had dinner at one of the best French restaurants in the Twin Cities. I've had a drink there, but never dinner. It was lovely. The Opera, The Barber Seville was delightful very funny, while having amazing music.
Tonight we will go to dinner at the chosen family's matriarch's home for dinner. A nice end to the weekend.
I struggled with some guilt about not going to see my own Mom this weekend, but there was so much going on. I called her this morning, and she cried and told me about all the struggles. And the struggles are real. Also, many of them could be reduced by spending some money. So I'm going to try and keep kindly offering this message. You need to hire some help, or move to assisted living. My Dad is 87 years old, and he can't keep up with all the caregiving duties for a disabled person. My brothers family is going to visit today, so I no longer feel guilty.
I will see both my kids next week in Boston, along with DSs lovely girlfriend. Sadly the weather forecast looks cold and damp. So much for pretty sun dresses. I broke my Amazon fast and ordered a dress with 3/4 sleeves. It arrives tomorrow. Hopefully it works. I do have other long sleeve dresses, but they're more winter colors, and I wanted spring hues.
The weather here is lovely yet again, so porch time commences.
119.8 - back up the pound I was down yesterday
Happy Mother's Day to all who have been a mother to some being (human, pet, etc). Always a bittersweet day remembering Elise who made me a mother when I was only 17. I met a woman the other night who confided that they had lost their only son suddenly a few months ago at the age of 33. Made me remember the extreme heartache of those early days of mourning. I refused to "celebrate" the Mother's Day immediately after Elise's death.
We hope Moby is home. Last we heard he was being dropped off quite late (around 11 pm). Apparently they hit a lot of traffic. Hopefully we will get an update this morning. ETA: Just got a note that Moby arrived home at 10 last night and was very excited to see his parents. What a relief as we felt responsible for making sure he got there safely.
I did some stuff around the house yesterday like starting the painting of the second nightstand in our bedroom. It is a 4 day process for each piece. There is one more piece after this one. I got some really cute starfish knobs from Amazon for them. Will post a picture once I get them on. In the afternoon we went to our outdoor music place and listened to a good blues band, then had an early dinner at the Mexican place again. Fresh guacamole and fajitas were quite enjoyable - very fresh.
Today we possibly will meet DH's friend who cancelled yesterday. DH had said yesterday was 50/50 that he would actually come and today it is 40/60 since the friend can extend his sickness from yesterday. And there is a possibility that he really is sick but who knows? No idea what we will do for dinner - somewhat depends on that. I didn't want to do the Mother's Day Brunch here since none of my kids are here and I am not a big fan of brunch anyway. Reminds me that DD said flowers were supposed to come a couple of days ago but still haven't arrived, though they were supposed to come between Friday and today. Last time she sent flowers here they came a day late and sat outside for 2 days because we had gone away.
Beautiful sunrise this morning. Justice was nudgy and got us up early. Have a super Sunday!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
We had started watching the first season of Poker Face but got distracted. We will have to revisit it this summer after we finish watching the regular network shows. Very cool that your nephew scored the music!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Happy Birthday and congratulations to DH!!!!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Greetings all
Sunny and windy here. I got going fairly early for this late camper and did my walking. Good thing there is a lot of Prince music that I have not heard yet. Then I went to the studio and made some new slugs. There is a spring sale going on there but I heard it is not going well. Again. when the weather is nice people are doing something else.
So last night we watched the first episode of the second season of Poker Face. Fun show. Looking forward to the rest of the season because our nephew scored the music for the show. He did some of the first season. So if you watch, check the credits for Judson Crane. His younger brother is the one with the new baby.
So the postal people picked up the bag of tuna and such that we put out for the food bank drive. They get 20,000 pounds of stuff. CAn't imagine schlepping all that but glad someone does.
So Moby must be home by now and glad. Justice can relax. Enjoy the rest of Florida Liz.
Ocean Diane, sorry you had a negative experience with on line dating. Don't blame you for backing away but I do know quite a few people who have done well with it. Hugs to you and Sadie.
Dinner last night was Mexican leftovers that DH brought home. There is still quiche for tonight. One of my discount grocery purchase was a large package of tiny tomatoes. All colors. What a filling food! Who knew?
DH is on a laundry marathon. He waits until he does not have one more thing and then binges washes. Oh well.
Happy birthday to Lavender Paula! Cake?
There is a new book out by Dr. David Kessler on weight and dieting. Forgot the name already but it might be worth a read. He wrote "The End of Overeating" which I recommend. More of an indictment of the food industry.
The dogs are basking in the sun. Life is good.
Diane S
No weight as we are in Door County.
Pretty chilly here and the Lake Flies have hatched, so we didn't do as much hiking as we had intended. Stopped by a nice little coffee shop and I enjoyed a Lavender latte and we took an afternoon nap, seems appropriate for a 60 year old! Lol!
We will go out to eat at our favorite restaurant. Seafood here I come! DH if I was going to get dessert but I doubt I would be able to eat it as good as it sounds! Home tomorrow!
So sorry this happened to you Diane! DH and I met on Match but there were also a lot of creeps! Good luck in your search for that perfect for you companion!
That stinks - so sorry. There is so much fraud everywhere these days.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Oh, I'm sorry this happened to you. Sadly, the grifters are everywhere online, preying on good people. Good though that you trusted your instinct that something's not right and got yourself out of the situation.
Good morning ! My foray into online dating with Match is over (actually online dating period). Someone attempted computer assisted catfishing, now called Online Romance Fraud (ORF) with me. There are actually computer programs developed to take a victims correspondence and then generate the perfect responses, fine tuning with each additional communication. Fortunately, the red flags began to accumulate well before a request for money even happened. Positives: I have a clearer picture of what I am truly looking for Negative: I feel loss at what I thought I had found, and it hurts. At least I know what to put forth as a topic at my next therapy session.
Age: 64; 5' 5"; High weight: 345; Start weight: 271 (01/05/15); Surgery weight: 218 (05/27/15); Pre-Op (-53); M 1 (-18); M 2 (-1.5); M 3 (-13.5 ); M 4 (-13); M 5 (- 8); M 6 (-12) M 7 (-5, Xmas); M 8 (- 9) Under surgeon's goal and REACHED HEALTHY BMI 12/07/15!! (Six months and one week.) AT GOAL month 8. Maintaining at goal range (139- 144) ~ four (4) years !!