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Need some advice...nothing to do with wls, or pcos........
Hi Ladys...need some friendly advice
So i have a "friend" who is under our cell phone bill, and well ever since i'v had surgery she has really wanted nothing to do with me..and has been really snotty and mean...we've been trying to get ahold of her via-email, text....and she rudly wrote something on facebook about the best way for anyone to get ahold of her to call or come over to her house...when anyone ever calls her she never answers....and it goes both ways with driving.....I'm getting sick of her 2 faceness...and honestly i know it mean.....but i don't care if were friends...she always acted like she was better then me and sometimes...i swear she just used me for daycare for her 2 kids............Well her bill is 217$ and she fianlly told me i could pick it up at 10:30pm, sunday night...but i don't want her on our account anymore...becaues our bill was due 2 weeks ago.....and she is getting later and later on her bills....................what would you do if you were in my shoes?!?!
So i have a "friend" who is under our cell phone bill, and well ever since i'v had surgery she has really wanted nothing to do with me..and has been really snotty and mean...we've been trying to get ahold of her via-email, text....and she rudly wrote something on facebook about the best way for anyone to get ahold of her to call or come over to her house...when anyone ever calls her she never answers....and it goes both ways with driving.....I'm getting sick of her 2 faceness...and honestly i know it mean.....but i don't care if were friends...she always acted like she was better then me and sometimes...i swear she just used me for daycare for her 2 kids............Well her bill is 217$ and she fianlly told me i could pick it up at 10:30pm, sunday night...but i don't want her on our account anymore...becaues our bill was due 2 weeks ago.....and she is getting later and later on her bills....................what would you do if you were in my shoes?!?!
Sometimes we have to let certain relationships go, especially if they are causing stress or financial difficulty in our lives. I would go pick up the money she owes. Maybe you can tell her that you have decided to change phone carriers and are cancelling the contract including her phone line. Good luck.
3/24/10 - 297 lbs the day of surgery
Sounds like you are being put in a tough position.
1. Be honest, tell her you want to cancel her phone. Tell her why. And explain you pay your bills on time. Period.
2. If you want, give her one more chance. She dont give you the $ to pay the bill on time next time, then just call and have your provider shut the phone off.
If you dont want to give her another chance, email her, tell her you are calling on such and such day and having her phone shut off. Tell her you are sorry, but your bills need to be paid, and she has not been sticking to her end of the deal. Be prepared for the friendship to be over. Some people like that never see that they are the ones being mean, and or wrong!
Doesnt sound as if shes a good friend anyway, so maybe you would benefit from not having her in your life.
Good luck!
1. Be honest, tell her you want to cancel her phone. Tell her why. And explain you pay your bills on time. Period.
2. If you want, give her one more chance. She dont give you the $ to pay the bill on time next time, then just call and have your provider shut the phone off.
If you dont want to give her another chance, email her, tell her you are calling on such and such day and having her phone shut off. Tell her you are sorry, but your bills need to be paid, and she has not been sticking to her end of the deal. Be prepared for the friendship to be over. Some people like that never see that they are the ones being mean, and or wrong!
Doesnt sound as if shes a good friend anyway, so maybe you would benefit from not having her in your life.
Good luck!
