The Loser's Bench

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Barbara C.
on 8/22/11 3:54 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: Successes and Struggles

I thought it might help if we tried sharing our successes and struggles. They change over time, so it doesn't matter if you are awaiting surgery, in the midst of losing weight or have reached maintenance, you'll have something valuable to share.

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Barbara C.
on 8/21/11 2:21 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: Back to work??

Please ask your surgeon what they anticipate for you with your personal medical history, overall health, job duties, etc. Most people are out about 3 weeks. Remember that even though it is done laproscopically, this is major surgery and the first few weeks, your 'job' is to get in the fluids, protein and suppliments prescribed by your program. It might not seem like it now, but it really is a full time job at first.

Wishing you all the best and looking forward to hearing about your appointment.

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Barbara C.
on 8/21/11 2:10 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: 4 Weeks Post-Op
How is your weight loss and exercise regimen coming along now? While it is not uncommon for surgeons to release you to begin an exercise program at about 4 to 6 weeks post op, understand that this is really medical decision based on your personal abilities and medical issues. I hope that all is going well.

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Barbara C.
on 8/21/11 2:07 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: Bariatric Aftercare Symposium

I wanted to take a moment to say thank you to everyone who came to the Bariatric Aftercare Symposium at the Raleigh One Step at a Time monthly support group meeting yesterday.  The symposium was focused on ways to succeed longterm after bariatric surgery. Each presenter brought something special to the event:

Dr. Eric DeMaria of New Hope Wellness Center in Raleigh NC, introduced his newly launched center for total bariatric aftercare, New Hope Wellness Center in Raleigh NC which is providing comprehensive support for bariatric patients with a focus on the whole patient and long term aftercare.

Author Dawn Adams shared techniques from her new book, Weight! That's not the Issue which help us find ways to identify and manage stressors to more effectively deal with the issues that can contribute to emotional eating.

Dr. Martin Binks of Binks Behavioral Health spoke about tools and techniques we can use to identify and remove barriers that can stop us from making the changes necessary to support the healthy lifestyle we want to live.

Author and motivational speaker Barbara Thompson spoke of her personal journey and experiences as an WLS patient as well as sharing strategies for attaining and maintaining long term success. 

It seemed like the time flew by and I wish that we could have a couple of more hours. I really appreciate the time the presenters took to speak with our group. 

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

clarlar
on 5/31/11 3:51 am - Roy, UT
Topic: 4 Weeks Post-Op
 When did your surgeons let you start doing more exercise wise than just walking or leisurely biking??  I'm 4 weeks post-op today and went to the gym to do 40 minutes/9.5 miles on the recumbent bicycle today.  Am trying to be good on the not doing anything too strenuous, but I am also frustrated with my loss of muscle mass and weakness (do realize they are both part of the surgical weight loss process).

Any advice for me???
Barbara C.
on 5/20/11 2:25 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: Decisions

I was watching TV the other day and an ad from SpecialK came on and it was talking about decisions and how one good decision, leads to another, which leads to another... It's so true. Have you noticed that when you do get up and get moving, that they decision to take care of yourself by exercising some then leads to better decisions about what you are putting in your mouth, etc... I think that the opposite is true as well and it can be a very slippery slope; meaning that one 'bad' decision often leads to another and another. The good news is that we are constantly being faced with the opportunity to make a new, good decision.

Sooooo, what decisions are you making today to take care of yourself?

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

REDKAT42025
on 4/30/11 10:48 pm - BENTON, KY
Topic: RE: Following Up...
Not doing as well as I need to be. I am having total knees in 8weeks, and would like to lose weight before the surgery (as much as healthy) and build myself up. Am trying some Yoga and deep massage....Not as motivated as when I first had surgery to eat well. It is easier to take a few spoons of peanut butter.....Thanks for all the inspiration

 
Barbara C.
on 4/27/11 9:50 am - Raleigh, NC
Topic: RE: Any advice?!

At just 3 weeks post op your new little pouch is still very swollen and tender. That can make it difficult to swallow even a very little bit of 'solid' foods. Please know that this this gets better. In the mean time, trying things that are softer such as cottage cheese, riccotta, deli sliced meats and chili may be the safest bet for a while. Give yourself a week to 10 days after you have had trouble with something before you try it again. Also make sure that you chew, chew, chew when you are eating so that it can liquify before swallowing. This is not how you will eat forever, but it is necessary now.

Hang in there and let us know how you are doing.

Barb

Barbara
ObesityHelp Coach and Support Group Leader
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/bcumbo_group/
High-264, Current-148, Goal-145

Flower_Child_68
on 4/20/11 9:57 am
Topic: Any advice?!
almost three weeks post surgery.  i can't hardly eat anything more than pudding, chicken or turkey.  i tried tuna fish and baked fish...both came back...putting them on  the don't eat list for now...any advice from anyone?!  i am so frustrated!
Flower_Child_68
on 4/17/11 10:45 am
Topic: RE: Following Up...
thanks for the inspiration.  i am 2wks post op and just had a battle with veggies (gassy!).  i am hoping and praying that it gets a little easier..
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